from those attracted to members of your sex, +2 from everyone else. Exception: Members of the same sex with reason to dislike you (more than -4 in reaction penalties regardless of bonuses) resent your good looks and react at -2 instead.
You must make a self-control roll any time the GM feels you show an unreasonable degree of caution. If you fail, you must go ahead as though you were able to handle the situation!