from those attracted to members of your sex, +2 from everyone else. Exception: Members of the same sex with reason to dislike you (more than -4 in reaction penalties regardless of bonuses) resent your good looks and react at -2 instead.
Become expert on several topics; Make a self-control roll whenever it would be wise to deviate from your goal. If you fail, you continue to pursue your Obsession, regardless of the consequences.
You only fight to defend yourself or those in your care, using only as much force as necessary (no pre-emptive strikes allowed!). You must do your best to discourage others from starting fights.